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WARNING: Very Long Post!<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

James was born full term at 12:30 am on August 29, 2009. The pregnancy was uneventful without any complications or surprises like our previous pregnancy. (Please refer to The First Pregnancy section of Our Story<\/a> to learn more about the previous pregnancy). We went to all the prenatal doctor appointments and everything about this baby, who we would later name James, appeared to be normal. We thought we were having a normal, healthy baby boy. With the pain and heartbreak of losing Jackson, this was such a relief. It wasn\u2019t until Stacy\u2019s water broke on August 28th that we knew something wasn\u2019t right.<\/p>\n

After her water broke, Stacy quickly ran to the bathroom to clean up while I started to get things ready to go to the hospital. As Stacy was cleaning herself up, she noticed what appeared to me meconium in the amniotic fluid. Meconium is a babies first stool and contains materials ingested by the fetus within the womb. It is usually passed in the first few hours or days after birth. When meconium is passed prior to birth, it can make it harder for the baby to breathe because it can clog the airways, irritate the airways and injure the lung tissue, and block surfactant, which is a fatty substance that helps open the lungs after birth. (The preceding information about meconium was taken from\u00a0https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/<\/a>.)<\/p>\n

We rushed to the hospital (which was a 30-minute drive) as fast as we could. When we got to the hospital, we were taken to labor and delivery and the nurses started the routine pre-delivery prep work. There was some concern that James wasn\u2019t moving. One of the nurses reached up inside of Stacy to try to attach some probes or something and when she lightly scratched his head, he still didn\u2019t move. She feared that he was in distress and called for an emergency C-section. I can\u2019t explain what we were feeling at that moment. We were in utter disbelief. How did we go from the Jackson pregnancy where we knew something was wrong early on, to this pregnancy where everything seemed normal, only to be thrown this curveball? \u201cWas James okay?\u201d<\/em>\u00a0\u201cPlease be okay!\u201d \u201cGod, please don\u2019t do this!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

When our OBGYN on-call arrived, Stacy was wheeled into delivery to get James out as quickly as possible. At 12:30 am on August 29th<\/sup>, James was brought into the world. I had seen enough movies and hospital shows to know that a baby cries shortly after birth, but James didn\u2019t cry. As we held our breathes waiting for him to cry, we were told that he was alive, but they weren\u2019t sure what was wrong, so they were going to take him to the NICU for further observation and testing. The NICU, or Neonatal Intensive Care Unit, is similar to an Intensive Care Unit (ICU) for adults, but the NICU is for babies. Babies that are born premature, who have had a difficult birth, or who have health problems are sent to the NICU. There they receive around the clock care by a team of nurses, doctors, and specialists. We were fortunate enough that James was born in a hospital with one of the best NICUs in the area. If you want to read more about what a NICU is, please visit this page: https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Before I continue with our experience in the NICU, I thought I would take a moment to explain what a NICU is, for those of you who don’t know what it is, have never been in one, or happened to stumble across this page because your little one was recently admitted to the NICU and are Googling for information.<\/p>\n

What is a NICU?<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n

NICU stands for Neonatal Intensive Care Unit, or sometimes called Newborn Intensive Care Unit. Similar to an Intensive Care Unit (ICU) for adults, a NICU is a special unit a hospital for babies that are born premature or are born with serious medical issues. A NICU has advanced technology and is staffed by highly trained healthcare professionals to give special care to the tiniest of patients.<\/p>\n

Do All Hospitals Have NICUs?<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n

Unfortunately, not all hospitals have NICUs. We were lucky that James was born in a hospital with a Level III NICU. If the hospital didn\u2019t have a NICU, he would more than likely have been transferred to a hospital that did, either by ambulance or helicopter. Babies who need intensive care after birth do better if they are born in a hospital with an NICU than if they are moved after birth (https:\/\/www.stanfordchildrens.org<\/a>). For this reason, if you know that your baby has a medical condition before birth, it is recommended to give birth in a hospital that has a NICU, if possible. Of course, medical conditions may not be known prior to birth. We had no idea that James had so many medical issues before he was born.<\/p>\n

Are All NICUs the Same?<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n

Before James was born, I had very little knowledge of what a NICU was. We did a Labor and Delivery tour at the hospital during the pregnancy, but the NICU was not included on that tour. About all I knew about a NICU was that preemies went there and were placed in incubators to keep them warm. It wasn’t until after James was admitted to the NICU that I learned more about them and that there are different levels of NICUs. According to the March of Dimes<\/a>, there are 4 levels of medical care for babies. They also note that babies can move from one level of care to another\u2014to a higher level if they need more care or to a lower level as they get better and are ready to go home.<\/p>\n